Jessica Abel writes about self-forgiveness when missing a scheduled time to write: “Water under the bridge,” she calls it. Good advice, which hit home over the last two days.
Monday night I made a commitment to write every morning. Something I often do anyway, albeit not as much as I would like. Yesterday, I spent most of the day in bed with a bout of food poisoning. Today, I slept late. The last thing I wanted to do was write. By noon, I managed-two hours of revising. Should I try to make up for the time lost day yesterday? Or, should I feel guilty for missing my public commitment to write first thing? No. Writing is a long game. There have been days and weeks when I’ve had to stop writing. The trick? Get back and keep at it. My hope is that tomorrow I will be able to write firs thing. But, if not, I won't feel guilty. Guilty won't help me write more. A little self-forgiveness is a good idea.